Smiles, Tears, Laughter and Fears that is ME in this thing called LIFE.......
oh my god, these two Anonymous commentors are harsh, I dont know where they came from, this is the old Anonymous who supports you, some people dont understand that when you go through a loss of a relationship etc and you really loved the person, its not just a case of moving on, it can take alot of time, and its really hard, some people "love" other people and jump from one relationship to another, thats balls, if it was a deep love it will take alot of time to get over it, and you will hurt for a long time, this is Blue Sunflower's blog and I love her posts and her honesty, dont diss her because she is sharing her feelings.I feel she is definitely better off without her husband but it will take a long time before she realises it and is actually glad she is not spending the rest of her life with him. The biggest mistake people can make is living with in-laws, it fucks everything up. Blue Sunflower just make sure you never make that mistake again.*hugs*
Lady, ignore those who say mean things and aren't "man/woman" enough to leave a name. Your story, your experiences are yours and there is nothing anyone can say or do to change how you feel. One day things will be better.
I don't think she was judgemental regarding her sister in law falling pregnant out of wedlock, the family doesnt even know who the father of the baby is, its not like the sister had a serious boyfriend etc. And if the SIL constantly acts all high and mighty and bad mouths other people but then goes ahead and has sex before getting married, well then Blue Sunflower has every right to make a comment on it.I've never found Blue Sunflower to be judgemental. Where do these Anonymous commentors come from??? And as I said before, this is Blue's blog, she can say whatever she wants, its her feelings here, her life here, and her space. And I dont see anything wrong with anything she's written.I'm going to start signing off with "Tal" since there's so many anonymous commentors now :) I was also the third comment on this post.
wow! you have a lots of lurkers on your blog!Firstly I say this:your blog is your space and if you use it to vent then that is your right - no one has to read it.Secondly, yes, we are all responsible for our own happiness but sometimes life throws some really huge curveballs and it is not easy! I think people who lack compassion are probably people who have either never been through a real tough time else they have and are responding in bitterness.Finally, God loves you. He created you as His daughter to have a relationship with Him. We live in a fallen world and stuff happens, but God does love you and He is always in control. Hope things get a bit happier.
Conveinient how poor little blue has to delete all thr comments she views as negative. Sorry dear but it's the truth...if the shoe fits...wear it! Oh poooor little blue. IF you read your OWN entries from the beginning...you would see that you guys were having problems right from the get go! So stupid girl...OPEN YOUR EYES...count your blessings that you don't have to live like that for the rest of your life and get on with it! Shenaz M
Dearest Shenaz.... Whoever you are. You don't know me and you don't know my life.... So butt out ok. As I have said and will say AGAIN....THIS IS MY BLOG. I CAN DO AS I PLEASE. SO IF I FEEL LIKE DELETING YOUR SHITTY COMMENTS I WILL DO SO.... Bite me.
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